Saturday, March 23, 2019

LEARNING TO DISCERN THE 'VOICE' OF GOD...

Learning to discern Gods Voice starts with praying sincerely looking for His answer an then doing wat feels right deep inside...lets join together in prayer today for God to b clear wat is best ..for He has the Whole Picture which we dont. Then wen u revisit should i or shouldnt i...u see wat feels rt for u an if 1 thing still ping pongs with joy deep down...then that is it.. that is wat God wants...the process is that simple. This is a process of learning a different way to live than the way we were raised...God has the Right Answer every time...we just have to ask ,listen an then proceed.

And we quiet those noisey voices that continue to think God will tell us
indirectly thru them.  He needs no inbetweens...if we stay close to Him...He will relay His Messages directly to us....

talking with others is always gd cause many minds r better than 1...an it is gd to see all options ...but the ultimate choice is always ours. Even God does not take away our freedom to choose.. .so always go to those people who talk with no demanding that their way is the only way...go to people who will talk an then push u into the arms of God to finalize ur decision. An always wait til it feels rt....wen in doubt... stand still an pray some more. ..this is a Great life Principle.....LEARNING TO DISCERN THE 'VOICE' OF GOD...

What this is...is a session in Spiritual Direction which is what I help many great people do. It is different than counseling but can be extremely helpful in life. Majority of the Saints before us all had spiritual directors to help them stay the course to God and fulfilling their purpose and Mission in this life. People often ask why i want to help everyone...why do i care...every person is my little sister ..brother ..my friend... a child of God.. therefore we are related...of course i care!!!

If the idea u r discerning is a good an holy idea....keep asking God which choice is better for u..but we need to separate rt an wrong an if neither is a sin or a bad decision...then it is just a beautiful option. ...an we can calmly wait on the guidance from God....wen it feels so right...wen u no because u no...That is God...THAT is Him...ur joy an energy may explode...or it may just sit well in ur heart....

I pray we learn to sit at The Masters Feet in silence waiting patiently on His Instructions alone......

If u r interested in Spiritual Direction pray to God to help u discern who it is u should go to.....He has the perfect one to journey with u...an if i can help feel free to leave me a note here on this site.

Til next time...lets try to learn how to discern every choice before us...so that more an more our lives become alligned with God's Perfect Will for us.

Be assured of my continued prayers for all of u...an plz remember me in urs. angie


To a young couple preparing for Marriage

Wen a man an woman r being led by God to begin a new life truly as ONE that is the time to forego ur pasts to journey forward doing wat ur souls hunger for...ignoring all the noisey voices around an following God in ur hearts. Wen in doubt stop...stand still...an pray...If u dont start to stand against the tide an stand on ur own journey...u may find urself fighting with others ur whole life to evolve an live FREELY to fulfill ur mission an purpose...they will sadly continue to interfere an dominate in every decision that lies ahead. Cant plz everyone ...an it is only necessary to plz God first an follow His Lead which He shows us in our hearts an desires wen we stay close to Him.  Stay true to who u r.

....There r always lots of possibilities...
keep dreaming ....Wen we stop dreaming miracles slow down....as we get older we become more limited an practical in our dreams rightly so...but u r young...DREAM...PRAY...AN DREAM SOME MORE...

Hope this helps!

Sunday, February 10, 2019

Team up together in prayer, almsgiving an fasting

Good morning...Made an  offering...a tythe...
almsgiving to a single woman who lost her 30 yr old son in a car accident to help her with her expenses. I just gifted her without a word...but in my mind an heart i offered it as part of the 3 things that we do wen we want to cover people in prayer...next my 9 am mass this morning will b the prayer component ...an last i am fasting this morning also. I tell u not because i want any attention but to remind u of how we fight wen life is too much an is overwhelming an wen we want to get Gods Attention an Help. Prayer...Fasting..an Almsgiving..3..a knot of 3 cords is stronger than 1 or 2 strands...The Bible says that a 3 Strand will not break. An so...this is even better if u join someone an it b 2 or even 3  doing this together for an intention....it is very simple an personal an does not have to b alot or lengthy or the same things i did.  God bless...look for Gods Miracles......plz remember me ....Blessed Sunday...rest an enjoy...dance in the kitchen an get someone u luv chocolate an flowers.😊

To God b All the Glory an Honor...an Adoration!  Forever !!  for any gd we do ...πŸ™πŸ’’πŸ˜‡

Friday, February 1, 2019

Angelina Rotella...Rest in Peace


Sometimes in life we r given Sacrificial Love ...in my case from my Dear Mother...an then when the tables turn we get called to give that same Love in return.
Mom...it has been my awesome privilege to journey with you all these years...to put into practice all we say we believe in from The Gospel...day in an day out. The world has lost its respect for the value of all life...from conception to natural death. Our elders r forgotten an buried long before they die. The lessons learned an growth achieved in this most marvelous journey of caregiving can never be attained elsewhere. I pray we all look in our family circles an find those chronically ill an those too old to care for themselves an pray we gladly reach out to carry an love them through...to advocate an fight for their dignity an proper care.
I want to thank all the Medical Professionals who cared for Mom through all this. I especially thank all those Angels who served an helped me in any capacity to lighten my load an embellish Mom's life with Love an visits.
Mom had many sayings:
MOST SACRED HEART OF JESUS I PLACE MY TRUST IN THEE!
DO FOR OTHERS WHILE THEY ARE ALIVE...DONT WAIT UNTIL THEY DIE.
THANK YOU GOD!
Mom you are my Favorite...i really Love you FOREVER...You are my Mom an my Very Best Friend!  See ya on the Other Side!  Plz pray for me! 
Hugs!!!  angie rotella-suarez...

daughter, caregiver and friend

Saturday, January 12, 2019

Prescription wen u dont no wat to do

We cannot force anything on anybody even if
reconciliation is their greatest desire also.   We cannot tell any one what to do or when. Wen we r unsure wat to do here is the prescription every time:

Go to church and sit in silence. Do this before the Blessed Sacrament and let Christ speak to you ...to your soul. Anytime your mind starts to interfere pleading or trying to bring forth its own agenda ask for it to be quiet and just be still asking Christ to speak clearly the how.. the if and the when of a meeting....dont rush this meeting...but dont delay...always remember the Scripture EVEN IF HIS MIND FAIL HIM referring to parents....but that applies to every human being including ourselves. Everyone is entitled to Mercy by God's Design. Try to approach this by watching cautiously ur tone...Do i sound like a modern catty demanding overbearing liberal person or do i reflect the Holy.. Loving.. Warm.. Obedient ..Conservative ..willing to Listen.. Patience of My Dear Mother Mary...this is the only sure way to become the saints God created us to b ...a saint an nothing less!!!!

caution about predicting sentiment or anxiety...one cannot  no a person really well with no regular contact or real relationship or without being God Himself...an remember no HAS TO...SHOULD HAVE...OR COULD HAVE...every one is free an if God doesnt take any of our freedom...or wag his pointer finger in our face then we cannot do that either....this is hard stuff wen we want revenge or wen we want so badly justice....
Dont force anything...let God an Sincere Luv lead...

If we follow this prescription all will always b well...

Friday, January 11, 2019

Caregivers resources

To my caregiving friends. I have found a beautiful online caregiving site an Catholic support group. Some great resources...one of their references is
St. John the care giver (wen Jesus gave John his Mother Mary at the foot of the Cross he became a caregiver...
interesting)
Lots of great resources...ck it out..pass it on
http://youragingparent.com
Lets continue to pray for each other.

Tuesday, January 1, 2019

"New Year" message...

R we wise people??...WISE PEOPLE STILL SEEK HIM....my New Year's message to all of us (although we Catholics start our New Year early Dec at the beginning of Advent...an our Jewish Brethren earlier than that...)
"NONE OF US ,ON OUR BEST DAY, EVEN IF WE UNITE OUR MINDS AN IMAGINATIONS ..CAN EVER FATHOM THE POWER OF OUR GOD!!!  lets take God out of the box we have imprisoned Him in...an remember, on our best day ,we can never imagine His Power an Strength....all that He can do!!!  HOW GREAT IS OUR GOD...PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME!!!!"
Let us keep this as a reminder every day of our lives. It surely will keep us hopeful an in peace. God bless...

Saturday, December 22, 2018

Obligation to attend holiday function or choice?

Feelings don't matter....
conscious decision of mind an will r all we need...a decision to Love God...decision to continue to grow...decision to Love even wen it is not deserved

As the 12 step programs teach make a decision to turn our will and life over to God.

If a ride alone is too much for u to attend a function don't go....friend/family gatherings r often superficial....we want to invest our energy in relationships an events that will fill us not drain us . wen in a weaker state..we must trust our inner voice....an ignore everyone else s guilt trip to do it their way or attend something that we r not comfortable with .
We may be putting ourselves in harm's way if we go an don't listen to our inner voice.

We have to learn to follow wat we no works for us regardless of opinions or obligation....no one will then come an cook or wash for us....or care for our responsibilities after.

Decide in wisdom...pray...but listen deeply an b sure God is first..you second in all our decisions

Move slowly...pray first before u decide anything

We must b cautious not to say we will pray for an answer without stopping an doing so ...otherwise it is our decision not Gods.

He knows wat is best...best 4 u an i.

Blessed Christmas to all...remember it is Jesus Birthday....not ours...take time to give Him a present...

Keep Holy The Sabbath

Always remember...if u profess to b Christian or Catholic... Sunday is Sabbath an we need to give Him his due first before anything else....Keep Holy The Sabbath Day....find a way to put Him first on Sunday then the social things

.praying for all of us.. to clearly discern an hear Gods Perfect Will an have the power to carry it out!

Trust God...go to Him for everything an u can then trust urself to know wat to do an wen

Tuesday, December 18, 2018

Urgent Prayer request for CARE GIVERS

I am calling out for prayers...fasting...an alms giving for all caregivers.Only with ur prayerful participation carrying us...will we b able to press on care giving for the ill an elderly.   Every day requires a 'dying' to self...a saintly patience...an virtuous courage an endurance which sadly run short in this world. We carry home..an
work..
an we do it mostly alone.  I write in confident Hope that HIS GRACE IS SUFFICIENT..an with the girding up from all of u we will b able to complete the mission God has called us to well. For every failure we beg His Mercy...for every Victory Jesus Alone gets all The Glory!  Ty...how rich we are to have Warriors who will fight with us..an for us.. an beside us...before Our Faithful God an King!!  Our weariness only allows Our God to shine more in our lives an in  these situations. TO HIM ALONE B ALL HONOR AN GLORY AN PRAISE!!! remembering All Life is precious from conception to natural death...an we will honor our mothers an fathers....all our elders..an continue to care for our disabled children..
relatives...
friends without
rest because God says they r Special an they r His...an therefore they r ours. God bless u for ur participation in this most important calling!...God bless all caregivers who go unnoticed...
unsupported...
an r viewed as unimportant by men....but treasures to God!

Til next time find a care giver in ur life an bless them in a tangible way...a meal...flowers...bag of groceries...some time off...invite them out...a gift..etc...etc...in this way u will gift Jesus in the Manger...
"FOR WEN U DID IT FOR THE LEAST IF THESE...U DID IT UNTO ME!!"

MERRY...HOLY...BLESSED CHRISTMAS!!!

Life is precious from conception to natural death!

Forgive me for not writing. My 95 yr old Mom was very ill an in hospital an rehab for 2 mths. By the grace of God she is home an i am her full time care giver an so my limited time to b able to write. Many people r caring for the sick an i thought it might b gd to share the following with u.

I can never agree with a persons choice to die...assisted suicide or euthanasia. It is a totally different thing when naturally the body shuts down ..wen we choose not to use extraordinary means to save a life...but if we stop giving food an water a person starves or dehydrates to death...a painful process...not to say thirst an hunger don't naturally diminish close to death but small amounts of food an water r given until a person naturally goes leaving the decision of death to God. Here is a long but clear view of the Catholic Church's view on the Bioethics of death an dying based in The Scriptures from The Old Testament

"God did not make death, nor does He rejoice in the destruction of the living."
WISDOM 1:13

I think it may b good  to read this in its entirety to better understand  our Catholic view ...mayb a different view from our own. An even now as we all journey towards God...this process for my Mom an i is a time of growth an development.  For where in life does a soul learn real total dependence on God but in the position we r in?..where does a soul develop Godly patience an heroic courage an kindness an luv...qualities of the great saints before us?  There is an appointed time for our passing...an we must never rush that nor interfere with that ...an prayer is the only vehicle that can give us  deep discernment where we may hear from God an obey without full understanding following the example of Father Abraham before us. May God Himself guide us an invade our privacy to hear ONLY HIS VOICE...that we may know His Perfect Will an have the courage to do it!!  All Life from conception to natural death is precious!  May we live according to this Truth ..

Til next time lets read this an take this deep into prayer to understand better God's approach to life an death.

Blessed Christmas to u!  B assured of my continued prayers!!

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Heaven an becoming Extraordinary Heroic Saints

Lost a friend of many yrs...2 songs always help me thru...

REMEMBER ME by Marc Schultz

I CAN ONLY IMAGINE by MERCY Me which also has a movie that is available on Netflix an elsewhere.

These songs remind us there is a Heaven an it is a beautiful experience to go there. An the other to remember the beautiful qualities of a person who has gone before us...while reflecting on who we r...who God calls us to b...how to grow so wen we pass, others will have beautiful memories of us too...hopefully those memories will point others to God the Source of All Gd.

We r aspiring to be more than ordinary. In a world like this that we live in we need to desire to become extraordinary heroic saints ...nothing less...an we can then impact our world 1 person at a time.

Til next time let's take a few moments to listen to these songs an see wat message God has for us in becoming the extraordinary heroic saints He created us to be. Praised be Jesus Christ now an Forever!

https://www.google.com/search?q=remember+me+mark+schuktz&oq=remember+me+mark+schuktz&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l3.12839j0j4&client=ms-android-metropcs-us&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

https://www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-metropcs-us&q=mercyme+i+can+only+imagine&stick=H4sIAAAAAAAAAONgecQYyi3w8sc9YSmfSWtOXmN04-IKzsgvd80rySypFNLhYoOylLgEpHj00_UNC02zKsyMy1I0GKT4uFBElLia9q04xMbCwSjAwAMA5yMpIFoAAAA&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjI4ZGN3rneAhWLVN8KHUQFD-0Q3LoBMAF6BAgKEAM&biw=320&bih=448

https://www.google.com/search?q=i+can+only+imagine&oq=i+can+only&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j0l3.4776j0j4&client=ms-android-metropcs-us&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

Friday, October 19, 2018

CONQUER WITH LOVE

Lets be different...fighting for wat matters...doing the rt thing regardless of wat everyone else tells us....lets stand in the gap for our parents... children...spouse....lets do wat is loving regardless if we r the only ones. Lets not make our own decisions...lets ask God an have courage to obey even if it hurts. God has the record bk an knows our sacrifice for Love of Him!!  This will never go unrewarded. Never!!!

We r a light in a very dark world!!!  Lets conquer with Love!

God is so proud of us wen we do this....we r a hero...πŸ˜‚lets crush the enemys head with Jesus...Our Lady...and LOVE..

LOVE WINS IN JESUS' NAME EVERY TIME ...an thru the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Lets be proud to be on Their Team...an win decisively for our spouse...our parents...our children...our friends...our neighbors...our world...and Our God!!!

TO GOD ALONE ALWAYS B THE GLORY ....

So the next time we r faced with responding in justice...we will pause for just a minute...an beg for the grace to b able to conquer the situation with Love...i promise we will never regret it!

Til next time...lets reread 1 Cor chapter 13....all of it...."LOVE NEVER FAILS!"

Sunday, September 23, 2018

"GOD IS BEAUTIFUL!!"

My friend wrote me a response to an answered prayer....my New Favorite Adjective for God...he wrote

GOD IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!

That says enough...lets chew that over for a while...til next time..

A few ideas...keeping life simple

πŸ˜„be creative in making meals...simple meals...easy foods to get ready ..prepare...fun things to eat ...variety....u will no...ask God an He will guide...if u cant shop the whole store...check out wen u r saturated tired or had enough...take someone  to help

Pray for the healing of ur family

Pray for a miracle

Open ur heart an let Love in!

Consider  Mass  tomoro morning an bring ur family...but if they choose not to come go alone...Gid must b First in our lives....then go out for breakfast..doesnt have to cost mych....find a cheep diner

Thursday, August 30, 2018

Caution seeking human healers...Jesus The Only Real Healer

...about healers....i recommend great caution with going to healers. One has to b tried n true to b able to claim that they heal..an those who have the gift know it is not them but Jesus Who heals as The Word says only "thru prayer an fasting" ...& "almsgiving"....a real healer would never charge u a penny...an these false healers open us up to negativity....an also weary God Who desires all our time an attention because He is THE ONE AN ONLY HEALER ... The Healer Par Excellant..... Maybe we can sit with God ......pray...listen..just be..
...an let God heal us as He sees fit....

I'm "Worn"

.2nd row of videos...2nd video.."Worn"....hope it feeds u like it did me this morning.

https://www.google.com/search?q=worn+lyrics+tenth+avenue+north+chords&oq=worn+lyrics&aqs=chrome.2.69i57j0l3.7891j0j4&client=ms-android-metropcs-us&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#scso=_Mlp9W_qFELKq_QbCm5m4Dw11:263

Confession...lets consider going...take a nap an shut the phone...we need our rest

"With Open Hands"

Best book to read starting a deep journey with God
WITH OPEN HANDS by Henri Nouwen.....easy.. small ..quick ..tender...u may want to look this up

Reminders...stay close to God....Make sure you eat well...  ...take a short walk daily....an get enough rest

enjoy the rest of your God bless you


"HE Knows My Name" Christian Radio

Listen to this song....go to link...scroll down to second row of videos an click the one with a man on a mountain with hands up in air an words on the screen...enjoy...
.... This song is healing...be healed an raised up in Jesus Name!!! An ur family too!!!

https://www.google.com/search?q=isreal+new+breed+he+knows+my+name+lyrics&oq=isreal+new+breed+he+knows+my+name+lyrics&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l3.14164j0j4&client=ms-android-metropcs-us&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#scso=uid_fgV8W5fKIY2n5gKh-a2IDA_0:0

Suggestion:  try listening to 99.1 fm or 96.7 fm ny area....great healing Christian modern music...all positive an uplifting with God's Message...if u r not in the tri state area look up ur local Christian Radio Stations an listen in.... enjoy ur day....this is the only one we r guaranteed...we have it...so treasure every minute!!!

Some words . to help center us..

We must continue to learn to b very spontaneous and flexible. God has an appointed moment for everything.

Stop...eat calmly....deep breaths....look far away to rest eyes from close work...an stop trying to solve everything fast...it will come...just pray

B at peace...b present an do ur work unto the Glory of God...HE has given u this job....do it well...b obedient an give gd labor for fair pay...everything can b a prayer...offer ur last hour up to just tell God how much u love Him...wen u put a value like that on something as trivial as work it becomes the greatest privilege to do well

Remember...less caffeine